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We’re kicking off our Refresh with perhaps the simplest (yet sometimes hardest) task of all: purging your possessions. The unnecessary sure has a knack for staying around, especially when it retains a certain sentimental value or hope for a come-back. But I don’t just mean the sweaters from 2005 that hang stagnant in your closet. With this 30-day bag challenge, I’m talking about the junk drawers, the guest bedroom closets, the bathroom drawers, the garage, etc. Alllllll of the stuff, my friends.
I invite you to join me in a 30-day challenge to go through the junk. Everyday, I’ll be donating a garbage bag full of stuff from the house. Think piles of old magazines, forgotten cans in the pantry, unused dinnerware in the cupboards, old shoes in the closet, bookshelves off dusty books that deserve a new home.
Now, if the sound of getting rid of a garbage bag’s worth of stuff scares you, shoot smaller; donate a grocery bag. The simple practice of parting with things you do. not. need. will help you truly “refresh” as you start the new year. Believe me, I’ve taken a headstart (#sorrynotsorry) and I already feel a million times better.
Follow along on Instagram stories and Snapchat (username WAITINGONMARTHA) as I sift through my stacks and stashes and find a better home for it all. We’d love to see your progress too, so be sure to tag @waitingonmartha and #itsgone as you join in on the fun. And of course, we’ll be talking later this month on tips and tricks to live (and buy) smarter for your wardrobe and home. Truly, MKR
P.S. Looking for what to do with all your stuff?! Think beyond the obvious donation spots (where it could even eventually end up at a landfill), and instead do a little research on a great local charity that will benefit from your donations (think Women in Distress, AMVets or even PETA if applicable). Some organizations will even schedule a pick-up from your home to make it an easy, seamless process.
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I’ve become a bit obsessed with morning (and nighttime) rituals lately; I’m slowly finding that they’re the secret to success for a more productive, more balanced (and just straight better) life.
My boyfriend is an avid Tim Ferriss devotee, which has made me, in turn, become a fan too. He’s the author of three NYT bestsellers (ever heard of The 4 Hour Work Week?) and drops a lot of knowledge on his super popular podcast. Tim talks a lot about the rituals of highly successful (and all around incredible) celebrities and individuals, pointing out the patterns in their habits in hopes of getting to the bottom of what makes them thrive.
The common theme among all of them? A few simple habits in the morning have the power to make your day great (and they really do matter). I’ve adopted a few of these so far myself, though I still have a ways to go in the meditation department… But alas, I’m taking it in baby steps so that I don’t bite off more than I can chew. With the help of Tim Ferriss and a few other inspiring reads, I rounded up five sure-fire ways to finally enjoy your mornings once and for all. I’d love to know what you do in the mornings to help you take on the day with a pep in your step. Cheers, Kat
Use an alarm clock to wake up in the morning, and keep your phone in another room. It will not only help you sleep better (less screen time as you unwind before bed), but it will also ensure that the start to your morning is devoted to your morning rituals. Uninterrupted YOU time and not answering to anyone else (emails, texts, Instagram, etc.).
Any exercises that strengthen your core will help your spinal alignment for the rest of your day, not to mention get your blood flowing. I’ve also read that an inversion has a dozen positive effects on your body…so get into that headstand! Because of their movements, yoga and pilates are great practice to incorporate into your morning rituals. And if that still sounds too aggressive for you, check out this no-excuses morning workout.
And of course, everyone’s heard that meditation is a key ingredient to success by now, especially for entrepreneurs. The app Headspace is a simple way to get started (and one that I’ll be trying soon!).
Journaling every morning for as little as five minutes can be just the thing your morning ritual is missing. By writing down what you’re grateful for, you’re starting your day feeling content, satisfied and blessed in different areas of your life. It’s a simple, proven way to improve well being and happiness…and everyone from athletes to movie stars to your neighbors and the UPS man are doing it (and so should you).
The Five Minute Journal is a great way to get started; its simple, structured format keeps the guesswork out of it.
Make Your Bed
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According to Tim Ferriss, the simple act of making your bed gives you a feeling of accomplishment first thing in the morning. This is especially important for your productivity for the rest of the day because it encourages you to do even more tasks, ultimately enabling you to get more done.
Also, when working from home (*raises hand*), having a clean, organized environment greatly affects your productivity…less distractions = more GSDing.
Write Down Your Most Important Tasks of the Day (and Do Them First)
After you’ve made your bed and given your soul a little hug (through exercise or meditation), go ahead and write down the most important things you need to get done that day. By writing it all down and tackling the dire tasks first, you streamline your to-do list and boost your productivity levels. You’ll be feeling like a million bucks as you cross off the must-do’s, and that feeling of accomplishment will fuel you through the rest of the day.
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You may remember back in August I spent 10 magical days exploring all of 30A. The plan, in collaboration with 360 Blue, stay and explore 4 different 30A beach towns. The goal, make what can seem like an endless amount of confusing options a little less confusing. So with that in mind, Anthony, Addison and I set out for our trip; 10 days split between Destin, Rosemary Beach, Watercolor/Seaside, and Seagrove.
But before we get into the trip itself I feel I need to lay a little groundwork. First, we stayed the entirety of the 10 days in homes managed by 360 Blue. 360 Blue manages over 550 of the most luxurious vacation rentals located in Destin, WaterColor, WaterSound, Rosemary Beach, Seaside, Seagrove, and more. Basically, if you want to stay in a home along 30A it’s likely to be managed by 360Blue.
This was my first experience working with a home management company such and it was glorious. 360 Blue is a well-oiled machine. Pretty much everything is completed in their very user-friendly app that you download before arrival. While I’m someone who loves writing things down, I loved having everything stored via app instead. Let me give you an example. We were headed to the beach for the day, and because many of these beaches are private with access only for the nearby homes, there’s gates everywhere. In the app, all of the gate codes are listed so I could easily find the access code quickly. Same with all of the door locks, garage locks, check out times, etc. All in the app.
Aside from the app, 360 Blue’s customer service was above and beyond. Not only that, but they’re not just a management company, but are also an at-your-service concierge setting up all sort of activities for you and your family. We took advantage of this and had 360 Blue schedule a private poolside yoga session, golf, and my personal favorite an at-home 4-course wine dinner with one of the best chefs in the area, Chef Kalli.
Probably most importantly, 360 Blue’s selection of vacation rentals is vast. There’s a rental type, location, price for anyone and everyone. I was very, very impressed with all aspects of 360 Blue and trust me I’m not super easy to impress.
Second, When writing travel recaps it’s hard to sum everything up while providing helpful insight to those who are reading in hopes to travel to the area in the future. I feel it really comes down to the type of traveler you are. I especially think it’s extremely important to evaluate that thought when planning any trip, but especially a trip to 30A. Reason being, each area is different and plays to different strengths and weaknesses, so best to stay in the area that is most like your traveling personality. Because everything is so close in proximity you’ll be able to easily visit each area, but I highly suggest staying in an area that you’ll feel the most like you. So with that in mind, here’s what’s most important to me when traveling so you understand where I’m coming from in rehashing my personal experience.
When traveling to the beach I want a relaxed and quiet atmosphere. I don’t want to worry about getting ready or being dressed up, the more no-makeup casual the better. I don’t love crowds in general, but I especially don’t love them during a relaxing beach vacation. I want to be on the ocean or at least be able to see it and smell it from my window because that salt air is the whole reason I’m at the beach rather than in the mountains. I’m a homebody who loves to cook, so a great rental home with a fantastic kitchen is key. Double bonus if there’s an indoor and outdoor kitchen, and private pool because the Florida heat is nothing to play with. Great non-chain food options is a must. And lastly, I’d prefer to get around via golf cart or walking.
Okay, now that I feel like I’ve laid all the groundwork I can let’s get to the trip itself. I’d been to 30A once before, but it was to speak at The Southern Coterie Conference. It was a brief 3 days full of work, so I barely had any time to explore or gain any insight into the 24 mile stretch of 30A so I was excited to get down there and see it with true vacation eyes.
Our first stop was Destin. While in Destin we had the pleasure of staying at the “Beach House on the Moon.” As far as houses go, this one was definitely the newest, coolest and had the most bells and whistles. The outdoor space was what dreams are made of complete with a huge pool, walk up bar, full outdoor kitchen, and outdoor living. This house would be best if you had a large family or a were planning a fun girls or guys trip.
As far as location goes, Destin isn’t really my jam. It reminds me a bit of how I typically think of Florida; spring break city. Not to mention there weren’t a lot of great dining options and vacation for me is always heavily influenced by food. I did love however the golf cart driving I was able to take advantage of, and Destin was a great way to get our feet wet and prepare for the rest of the week.
Overall rating: House 9.5 (if this house was oceanside it would be an easy 10+) Location 5 (Destin just isn’t my personal ideal vacation town)
Next up, Rosemary Beach. Out of all the spots, I thought this was going to be my absolute favorite. It’s definitely one of the most beautiful. The architecture of the homes and the landscaping is simply breathtaking. Plus it butts right up to Alys beach which is equally stunning in a totally different way.
The home we stayed in was your typical Rosemary Beach style home and the Rosemary transportation of choice, bicycles, were lined up and ready for exploring. The best thing about this house (besides the amazing staircase) was its location, just steps from private beach access. And the beaches in Rosemary, and all along 30A for that matter are breathtakingly stunning. In fact, when I first spied the ocean of 30A I was shocked at how clear and turquoise it was. This home would be perfect if you were looking for a family vacation home and the guest cottage above the garage would be great for anyone traveling with you like grandparents who wanted some privacy.
Overall rating: House 8 (there wasn’t a lot of indoor sitting/relaxing space, nor was there any outdoor cooking space, but there was outdoor dining and a pool. Stairwell was insane, and while not oceanside the location was fantastic). Location 7.5 (everything is so tight, and it definitely doesn’t have the relaxed atmosphere I crave. Not to mention, no golf carts allowed. Great food and shopping though!)
Our third stop was WaterColor, the location I was most familiar with. While many love the architecture and vibe of Rosemary/Alys I actually think I prefer WaterColor. I’m not sure why, maybe because it feels a bit more relaxed? Maybe because golf carts are welcome? Or maybe it’s because I knew one of my favorite doughnut trucks was eagerly awaiting my arrival. Whatever it was, I was anxious to get back to WaterColor.
Sadly, the house we stayed in has sold and is no longer an available rental. And I’ve got to say it’s really sad because the house was a show stopper. I went through some available rentals and feel this one and this one are the closest to the one we stayed in.
Overall rating: House 8.5 (if this house was closer to the ocean, which very few in WaterColor are, it would be an easy 10) Location 8 (WaterColor is super adorable but it’s not a 10 because it’s a little too busy and too many kids for my current taste.)
Our last stop was Seagrove and this was the perfect place to end our journey. Located halfway between Rosemary/Alys Beach and WaterColor, Seagrove is my perfect idea of quiet. Not to mention our home was the closest we got to true oceanside living.
I loved this location so much that we didn’t really leave. Each day we’d walk on the beach and each night we’d pick up fresh seafood from GoatFeather’s and I’d cook in the open air kitchen, and we’d end our evening cozied up with a movie. I cannot stress how “me” of a spot this was.
The home itself struck a perfect balance between oceanside casual and high-end. I loved the balconies off each level and the overall feel made me feel like it was my actual home more than a place I was visiting. Also, there was plenty of space to get cozy and watch a movie which as I stated is basically what we did each night. We in fact loved everything about this space and place so much we extended our vacation by one day just to soak up one more day.
The only place that I feel would be a tad more me would possibly be Grayton Beach which is where we’ll stay next time. Grayton happens to also be home to our two favorite 30A restaurants; Red Bar and Chiringo.
Overall rating: House 8 (would have been an 8.5, but unfortunately construction is making those ocean views a bit more limited. Also wish it had more of an outdoor living/kitchen space. Access to the beach though was fantastic.) Location 9.5 (I told you I like quiet, and Seagrove is quiet but its location makes it easily accessible to everything.)
And that’s it. That was our 10 (actually 11) days in a nutshell. To make things a tad easier I’ve listed below each location and rated them in a few different categories to help you decide just where you want to stay. The where is the hard part, the renting a house through 360 Blue is the no brainer/easy part.
Please do remember these ratings/ranks are based on my personal experience and opinion. Also, because food is so important to me, I’ve listed out my personal restaurant recommendations below as well as other’s recommendations that I can’t vouch for because I didn’t get a chance to experience them, but felt they were worth mentioning. Happy travels friends! Truly, MKR
Seagrove – Food: n/a (restaurants are close, but not really in Seagrove) Beaches: 9 Kid Friendly: 7 Crowds/Busyness: quiet Shopping: n/a Transportation: Car & Golfcart
My Restaurants Recommendations that I can personally vouch for: Beach Walk Cafe (this oceanside spot in Destin located inside the Henderson Inn was a great surprise, loved it!) Red Bar (one of my most memorable dinners ever), Chiringho (tacos were amazing, definitely suggest it for lunch), Georges (lunched here twice, and dog friendly), La Crema (amazing tapas, amazing!), Bud & Alleys (fun, casual place for dinner), seven daughters (give me all their doughnuts, all day everyday), green juice, strawberry cake at Modica Market (not the absolute best I’ve ever had, but definitely worth the slice), Fonville press (yay coffee). Neat (great spot for drinks & to pick up wine & some interesting bottles to take with), and Goatfeather’s Seafood Market (this is where I picked up fresh seafood to cook almost every day).
Other’s Restaurant Recommendations that I can’t personally vouch for: The Great Southern, Stinky’s Fish Camp, The Hub at 30A (I went, but didn’t eat there), 45 Central, Paradis, The Meltdown, Cafe 30A, The Shrimp Shack, Pescados, Edwards, Elm’s Grill, Blue Mountail Creamery, Local Catch, Cowgirl Kitchen, The Wine Bar, Pescado, Paradis, Cuvee Beach, Caliza, Fish Out of Water, Black Bear Bread Co., Borago, Basmatis.
**A side note about the Pearl in Rosemary Beach. It’s absolutely beautiful, but I’ve had drinks and dined there on 3 different occasions and the service was so terrible (like shockingly so) I cannot personally recommend it. I can recommend the pool for an amazing Instagram worthy shot. It pains me to even write this, but because I know people will bring it up since it’s such a landmark of Rosemary Beach, but I have to be honest.**
