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Life Skills: 3 Things To Consider When Making A Major Financial Decision

Learning how to finance your dream car with Capital One
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One of my favorite things about having my WOM family is experiencing the girls’ milestones with them; it’s fun to feel the feels all over again.  Whether they’re getting out of grad school, going through the angst of love, traveling abroad or simply saving for the future, seeing them grow is a reward all in of itself.  Like any boss or mentor, I find myself playing the role as sounding board for a handful of hopes and fears, and I try to give my two-cents and advice whenever I can. 

So when Capital One reached out, wanting to talk navigating the financial side of car buying, my ears perked up with Kat in mind.  Sure, auto loans are something we all get to know at some point or other when buying a new car, but I knew they’d especially be important to Kat right now. As WOM’s Editorial Director, she’s in her late twenties and has recently found herself with her first car out of college, totally paid-off. The first go-around, she had her mom to help her navigate the steps and jargon.  And this go-around, she wants to take the process into her own hands, but she’s hesitant on how to move forward.  And I mean hesitant; we’ve been talking about it for almost a year now.

I was quick to understand though; car buying can be really stressful.  In a decision where you should feel 100% in control, you usually don’t.  And I know I certainly felt my hands were tied many times when discussing my options for the loan pay-off.  So that’s why I was intrigued to read that Capital One offers an Auto Navigator tool that lets you “test drive” all of the different options for your loan; make and model, term length and most importantly…price. 

I did a little digging before sharing with Kat; my father and the Mr. have both taught me something about car buying, and research ahead of time is ALWAYS key.  I was pleased to find that you can use the free Auto Navigator tool on your laptop or phone (in your pajamas at home in peace) to search for your dream car based on payment and APR info.  And to get started and pre-qualified, you won’t get dinged on your credit score (which is always a good thing). My favorite part is that you can modify and personalize the financing terms before you even get to the dealership…because, seriously, who likes to negotiate that kind of stuff at the dealership?  But why I really love this tool, is the before you even get there part I just mentioned.  Because if you’re anything like me (hands up) you may let common sense escape you when the prospect of something bright and shiny is on the horizon.

Along with the Auto Navigator tool, I felt we would be amiss if we didn’t share a few other practical tips when looking to make this, or any major financial decision.

One.  First things first; before making any financial decision, have an honest conversation with yourself about your personal financial situation.  Understand how much you truly can afford in a monthly payment and how that monthly payment will realistically fit in with your other bills.

Two. Do your research, especially if you’re buying used.  For a new car, price out your car with all of the bells and whistles, and make sure to ask at least three dealers for the the best price they can give you.  For a used car, make sure you understand through research any issues your car type has had in the past and do some digging for fair market value numbers.  Also, if buying used, stay away from any cars with CVT; continuously variable transmission.  According to numerous manufacturers and experts in their field, this is a system that can be faulty and may lead to trouble down the road.

Three.  Lastly, remember that car dealerships are a business, and they need to make a profit to survive.  Don’t be afraid to negotiate, but if you get a fair deal for the car you love, then go with it.  

Tell me friends, are any of you in the same boat? Have you had a great experience with financing your dream car?  We’d love to know!  Truly, MKR

Photography, Kathryn McCrary for Waiting on Martha | This post is in collaboration with Capital One, a brand we love and adore.  All opinions are 100% our own. 

6 Everyday Life Hacks We All Need to Know

Simple Fixes & Tricks to Bookmark Now
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If you’re like me, you panic every time a glass of red wine spills.  You google (or text your mother) how to keep your brass clean.  You curse up a storm when you try to self-clean the oven and the smoke detector goes off instead. 

The answers are always pretty simple enough, but they’re the kind of things that are easy to forget.  That’s why we rounded up six great everyday life hacks that solve some of our most common headaches.  Spills, stains and annoying chores are now made easy!  Tell me, do you have any tricks or life hacks to add to the list?  Cheers, Kat

P.S. If this life hacks post puts you in the organizing spirit, check out how to organize your linen closet, how to organize your master bathroom and how to organize your laundry room.  xo

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Get clothing wrinkles out in a pinch

Get clothing wrinkles out in a pinch

I’ve heard people say putting your clothes in the shower while it’s steaming can help get wrinkles out (I’ve tried it; doesn’t work every time). BUT a trick that does work: put a damp washcloth or paper towel in the dryer with your wrinkled item. In 5-10 minutes, you’ll be wrinkle-free! If you’re too lazy to iron or pressed for time, you’ll enjoy these other lazy ways to remove wrinkles.

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Learn how to fold a fitted sheet

Learn how to fold a fitted sheet

Master the art of folding a fitted sheet once and for all. This simple video shows us that it’s all about the half-fold and tucked corners!

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Clean your stove the right way

Clean your stove the right way

Contrary to logic, you should NEVER use the self-clean function to clean out your stove. Instead, a little baking soda, vinegar and elbow grease will help get your stove looking spick and span. You’ll want to make a baking soda and water paste, which then will be left in the oven overnight to coat the grease spots. After it’s sat overnight, you’ll wipe out the oven with a damp cloth and spray a little vinegar for any remaining baking soda residue. A final wipedown will have your oven looking beautiful once more! For more info, check out The Kitchn’s step-by-step tutorial.

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Make a red wine stain disappear

Make a red wine stain disappear

I’m the person that completely panics when a red wine spill happens. I’ve recently learned that the key is to blot, NEVER RUB, and a generous amount of salt and boiling water will help make it disappear. The longer you wait to clean it up, the more likely it is to set. For more info, check out this list of home remedy options to try. And as a side note, my friend recently spilled red wine on a white dress and our DIY Thieves household cleaner got it right out too.

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Remove germs from your sponges

Remove germs from your sponges

Microwaving a smelly sponge is one of the easiest ways to clean and deodorize it. Thanks to Reader’s Digest, we now know about this little life hack. First, pour a small amount of lemon juice into a bowl of water. Then, soak the sponge before putting it in the microwave on high for one minute.

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Make your metals shine again

Make your metals shine again

Vintage brass objects are such fun finds to pick up while you’re antiquing, but they can be absolutely filthy and covered in tarnish. Luckily, it’s pretty simple to get the tarnish off with a mixture of lemon, baking soda and water. One of our favorites Emily Henderson shares a great tutorial here.

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Let’s Talk: The Art of Snail Mail

We Revisit the lost art, and share top picks for pin-up worthy mail
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I remember when I was little that I loved having a pen-pal.  Sure, I don’t know how long it actually lasted, and I have no idea what we actually wrote about, but sending and receiving mail was always magical to me—even from a very young age. Now, at 27, and as I’m ever connected to my email and iMessage, I’m striving to set aside time to put pen to paper and proactively send snail mail to friends and family. 

It sounds easier than it is; I’ve gone through spurts when I’ve been great about keeping in touch with a few friends that also appreciate a handwritten note in the mail.  But lately, I’m sad to admit that I’ve fallen out of doing it…it’s crazy how quickly it gets pushed down on the to-do list. 

I have found, though, that having the supplies on hand (even the stamps!) is the best way to make a successful habit of sending snail mail.  My biggest piece of advice (which I’ll remind myself too) is invest in a great set of personalized stationery.  You’ll enjoy sending mail so much more when it’s a perfect reflection of you.  There are SO many gorgeous designs out there, especially from a few WOM favorites like Parker & Thatch, Minted, Mark & Graham, Paperless Post and Rifle Paper Co.  And if you’re interested in general notecards, you’ll love this collection of beautiful note sets for any old day, and thank-you cards that’ll make anyone smile. When I’m deciding on a notecard set, I like to think of what will be prettiest tacked onto the recipient’s cork board…because no one can throw away a gorgeous hand-written note. 

So let’s talk.  Do you appreciate the art of snail mail?  Do you write regularly letters to friends and family?  Are you on top of sending your thank-you cards?  And if this account doesn’t make you want to send some snail mail right this instant, I don’t know what will.  Cheers, Kat

P.S. I’d especially love to know about your favorite stationery brands!  Please leave any recommendations in the comments below. xo

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